Good Leaders Turn the Lens on Others (Productive Flourishing Pulse #478)
Not so much on ourselves, our abilities, and our self-optimization
We tend to think that good leadership is about our qualities as individuals. The media also emphasizes the idea of the ‘powerful personality’ that drives the success of prominent leaders.
But, as it happens, leadership isn’t all about you as “the leader” — separate from (or worse, better than) others, once you’ve proved your special personal abilities.
It’s actually mostly about others.
Hubert Joly, former CEO of Best Buy, wrote in the Harvard Business Review about his 5 main principles of leadership. They are:
Be clear about your purpose.
Be clear about your role. (Direct quote from Joly: “Your role as a leader is to create the right environment for others to flourish in support of [a] company’s purpose.”)
Be clear about whom you serve (“Hint: It’s not yourself.”)
Be driven by values.
Be authentic.
You’ll notice what these have in common: they’re not really about “you” per se, or even about your individual qualities, strengths, or abilities.
They’re about how we show up with others, and how we consider others when taking action.
Joly's leadership principles turn the focus not on ourselves, but outward. On our values in a society, our role in a larger organization. Serving others.
If you approach leadership as less about you, and more about others, what would you do differently?
If you think considering the needs of others will hold you back, the truth is much to the contrary: in business, in our work, in almost every aspect of life, it’s hard to get very far on our own.
We need others for almost any endeavor or goal to come to fruition. Imagine, for instance, trying to host a podcast without someone to produce and edit it — or someone to listen to it?
Even the most groundbreaking pioneer needs others onboard with them if they want to fulfill their objectives.
Next time you’re having an internal conversation with yourself on how you can show up with more leadership — turn your perspective to those around you.
Who are they? What do they need or desire from the work / project / pursuit you’re all engaged in? What would help them bring their best selves to the work?
Leadership not about just optimizing your own strengths, but helping others improve theirs.
What would you do if the aim wasn’t to optimize or grow as a leader for your own sake, but because you want to contribute? That will get you closer to an answer to some of life’s toughest questions about how to spend your time, and where to devote your energies.
Note that this doesn’t only apply to someone with a title. Each of us has the opportunity and the responsibility to lead others, to serve others. That’s how companies, communities, and societies — all of us, as humans — can thrive.
~Mary Clare1
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The second installment of “How to Take Back the Vision of the Creator Economy” by
, and on Tara’s Substack and Podcast What Works, landed, as we mentioned last week. Read below for more 👇
Reads and Seeds
In the second half of their essay on the creator economy,
, and ask what that even means now: “The promise of the creator economy is a life well-lived doing what you love. Fulfillment. Autonomy. Flexibility. Self-expression. Community. A stable, comfortable middle-class life. The model promises a more human and less automated interaction, writes Kyle Chayka in The New Yorker. "But [it] resembles a gig economy for digital content. Participants are still precarious workers, relying on the whims of corporations for their livelihoods. [...] We are asking, "How do I want to live?" and realizing that it's not like this.”- offers a meditation on the problem of hero-worship and guru-seeking (as opposed to following our own path) after seeing Elizebeth Gilbert speak live in London: “It made me question how preoccupied we are with seeking that when we’re in the presence of someone as powerfully captivating as Liz, it can tip us off center into a place that isn’t really even our own. [...] What would happen if we got really quiet and still for long enough the hear what our learning is, what our path looks like?”
- in “surprise! i keep feeling the way that i feel!”: “What I do love about getting older is that we are getting to know ourselves [...] However, life is still peppered with those aha, throw-you-against-the-wall moments. By now you might actually might have developed the confidence to look deeply at yourself and think — oh no, no more of that. No more yeses that aren’t full-body yeses.”
👋 Since we’ve been highlighting PF team members in the Pulse, I’ll reintroduce myself: I’m Mary Clare O'Donnell, a writer and social media maker, who has lived on and off in Italy since 2020. Past lives include: labor organizer, writing coach, cook, house cleaner, and PhD researcher (on populism in the U.S and Europe). Find me trying to do “slow life” with my husband and three-year-old.